People who are not followers of Jesus and not disciples are not drawn to be such by disagreeing to the point of disrespect. When I choose first to be curious about who they are and why they believe what they believe, when I first am interested in building a relationship before building a case, then I stay on target with leading them to Jesus. Jesus is still with us to the very end of the age, but when I just want to be right, Jesus never gets to be part of the story.