Where Does it Hurt?Stuart Jones "It's complicated" may be the most honest description of most relationships. Have you ever had two friends on the outs with each other and they wanted you to choose sides? Barnabas did when Paul and Mark had a conflict. And these are three of the most important leaders of the early church. Have people wondered why you are talking with a person who is living far from Christ? Jesus understands. It happened when He was talking with the woman caught in adultery and with the woman at the well. People are complicated and relationships get tangled. Mercy, grace, and forgiveness can untangle the complicated relationships in our lives.